Yup, drinking coffee. No but seriously.
I am getting there. I no longer feel the occasional disagreement means that the divorce court is the next inevitable step; in fact I never believed it was. I went into marriage with full knowledge of the statistics, but also the knowledge that while most people still stay married, most don’t get a book published, and I accomplished that so how much more likely is staying happily married?
Shame insecurities are not rational.