{"id":943,"date":"2011-03-09T12:34:58","date_gmt":"2011-03-09T12:34:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.benjeapes.com\/?p=943"},"modified":"2022-08-26T08:32:51","modified_gmt":"2022-08-26T08:32:51","slug":"day-18-a-picture-of-your-biggest-insecurity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.benjeapes.com\/index.php\/2011\/03\/day-18-a-picture-of-your-biggest-insecurity\/","title":{"rendered":"Day 18: a picture of your biggest insecurity"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-mIznrLAVJAo\/TXd1SYqC5VI\/AAAAAAAABVU\/QAhFZwNBklQ\/s1600\/18.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5582059221865915730\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-mIznrLAVJAo\/TXd1SYqC5VI\/AAAAAAAABVU\/QAhFZwNBklQ\/s400\/18.jpg\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nYup, drinking coffee. No but seriously.<\/p>\n<p>I am getting there. I no longer feel the occasional disagreement means that the divorce court is the next inevitable step; in fact I never believed it was. I went into marriage with full knowledge of the statistics, but also the knowledge that while most people still stay married, most don&#8217;t get a book published, and I accomplished that so how much more likely is staying happily married?<\/p>\n<p>Shame insecurities are not rational.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yup, drinking coffee. No but seriously. I am getting there. I no longer feel the occasional disagreement means that the divorce court is the next inevitable step; in fact I never believed it was. I went into marriage with full &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.benjeapes.com\/index.php\/2011\/03\/day-18-a-picture-of-your-biggest-insecurity\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[84],"class_list":["post-943","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bens-life","tag-30-day-photo-challenge"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.benjeapes.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/943","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.benjeapes.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.benjeapes.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.benjeapes.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.benjeapes.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=943"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.benjeapes.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/943\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3873,"href":"https:\/\/www.benjeapes.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/943\/revisions\/3873"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.benjeapes.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=943"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.benjeapes.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=943"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.benjeapes.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=943"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}